Hi everyone. I need some immediate help-my marriage is quite possibily over. I am confused and hurt - my husaband no longer lives in the house. Although I want to work on the relationship he does not. This has been very painful for me. I desparately need to change the qi in my home because I need to be strong for myself and my daughter. Here are the things I need help with.

I have an aquarium in my bedroom it has not been in there very long- I know now that I need to move it but it does take alot of effort to move so I want to make sure I put it in the right place in my living room? Any suggestions would be helpful.

The risers on my stairs are white and they are always getting scuffed and dirty- would it be bad to paint them black?

Any possible suggestions for these questions and somethings I can do to make myself stronger, build my self esteem and confidence.
Thank you,
Sofia