Hi Gallen
More wonderful and helpful advice - thanks for this. What you are offering is an excellent opportunity for me to move forward with some areas that I have not yet embraced. There's a balance about listening to others or listening to oneself which is quite complex. I like to at least 'hold' what others say and savour it for a while, then experiment and come to an understanding for myself (that's the theory anyway!) Also you bring a wealth of experience to the topics you comment on and that's always worth taking note of.
I want to share something wonderful with you. Last night Jack was very itchy from about 8 in the evening until 10.30. For possibly the first time he asked if I would give him some Qi Gong healing - I've always offered in the past. I knew I'd be distressed and indeed distracted by his scratching and as I started to say this he interrupted and asked if I could do it from a distance, which was what I was about to suggest.So I suggested that he went to bed and lay down and I would start in 5 minutes. I went up with him and he wanted to read a book to take his mind off things which I often say no to ( I want him to be #there' for the healing), but this time I decided it was ok. I asked him to take 3 deep breaths and went off to another room to start the work on him. I did a round of Small Universe which was a good idea to calm myself and then started, bearing in mind many of the things that you've mentioned.
I did the spine and main organs as you sugggested but in a very 'workmanlike' way, assuming that I would get the blockages and feeling confident about it. There were lots of blockages and I concentrated on clearing these and giving energy, taking breaks when necessary and doing a little visualised clearing to give me a break. I felt very much in touch with the process and had some good feelings in my gut as the blockages cleared. I took about 30 minutes and went in to see Jack. He'd turned out his light and was lying calmly on the bed. He went to the bathroom and then to bed to sleep and I felt that something significant had happened - I have no way of explaining why.
This morning I called in to see him before going to work and said as I always do 'how was your night?' 'Fine' he said. Now that doesn't sound like much until I tell you that I can't remember the last time he said that within the last few months. I should perhaps also tell you that I had a healing session with Chunyi earlier in the evening and I'm sure that helped me to be in a somewhat different place. However what feels to be the case is that, however I arrived in that state where I sensed I was doing good work, I now know more about the state I need to achieve (well there might be a range of states but I know about this one!). and I just feel deeply grateful to you for helping me to that place. I have felt very much lighter today!
With heartfelt thanks and love
Kev
