Forums IMPORTANT: PLEASE READ Diamond Feng Shui Bed position question - what do we do now?

He is a 5 and I am a 3. His best directions are: NE, W, NW, SW
My best directions are: S, N, SE, E

We live in a trailer and we did have the bed in the flow of the door with our heads to the north, which is my health direction, however, the energy flow from the door did not help my neck aches and shoulder pain. Now I have moved the bed to our only other option which is Sean's health direction with our heads to the west, however, this happens to be my total loss direction. These are the only two ways we can place our queen sized bed.

If I moved the bed where our heads are point to the east direction, the bed would be completely blocking the closet and also a heating vent would be right on Sean's right side blowing at him all night.

So what do we do now? Since I moved the bed to Sean's health direction, he's feeling fantastic and his knee ache has gone away. I haven't felt much of anything in my total loss direction. I feel pretty good, actually, (and then of course no more neck and shoulder aches, which I had from the flow of the door when we had our heads pointing in the north direction) but am concerned as to how to block any effects from a total loss direction.
Right now the bed is not in the flow of the door, and we can see who comes and goes as our feet are pointing towards the door.

I am on the Essentials program so far but have started implementing changes from Level 1 and some from Level 2. Am very intrigued by the stars in Level 3 but I have to "massage" the personal energies first, as suggested in the manual.

So my huge question about the bed placement is: "Where do we go from here?"

Please someone let me know what to do Thanx!!
*Ulrika*

Next stop: check out P.15 in the Essential course manual - "Spouses with opposite directions."

Much Love,

Shawn

Ulrika,

My husband and I are opposites the same as you. I'm a 3 and he's a 5. My first thought is what do we do? All his good positions are my bad ones, and vise versa.
Then it hit me! What an excellent way to make sure your bad positions turn good? I activated all my positions and all his. Our bad positions just got eliminated. Now I know why we have been together for 26 years and are sitll madly in love.

Certainly gives the saying "opposites attract" new meaning.

Meesha

Hi Meesha

So which direction do your heads point to when you sleep now?

I will activate all of Sean's positions in the bedroom tonight.
I do not have any more of the special cards to do the activations with, however, I am sure with some crayons I could do a good job on some regular paper.

Today I am going to check out fountains at Wal-Mart. I want to put one to the north in the livingroom because that is my abundance direction, and I want to activate it tout de suite!

I got two small mirrors for the kitchen table for the abundance as well and I know the kitchen is a draining energy and we eat in there sometimes - mostly we eat in the livingroom in front of the tv. Back to the kitchen, it feels totally different in there since I put those two mirrors there. I can feel the Chi flowing all over and I also put a six tube hollow metal wind chime to the southeast with some wood accents on it.

Things they are a'changin' and we can both feel it, Sean and I.

I also bought a salt lamp and it is in the livingroom on the north wall.
It's been on basically since we got it yesterday and and no wonder I've been spending so much time out there in the living room - it's because it turns the positive ions into negative ones so that a person gets a feeling of calmness, destresses you completely from the day, makes you feel energized yet relaxed at the same time and when I cradle the lamp in both my hands I can feel the energy emanate from it. So I got all my family those lamps too!

Ulrika