The paraliminals that I would use would be Self-Esteem supercharger. My reasoning is if you do not genuinely love yourself you may not love others. And to love yourself and others you must now forgive. And one that I would really like to experiment with is Creating Sparks. And if you have Sonic Access I would definitely listen to the relationship CD of that series. And in the Abundance for life Course Paul inlist the work from Byron Katie and that is some very powerful stuff. You can download much of the material from www.thework.org