Hi again.....
I'm thinking if you just get started with the New Behaviour Generator and others as suggested above, particiularly Personal Relathionships, you'll find that the obsession factor diminishes quite quickly - the paraliminals do cover a lot of ground, and once one part of the problem is in repair, the rest of it also seems to sort itself out.
Just get started.... taking the first step is the biggest step toward repairing the situation.
Cheers!
Unis
