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Hey, ive been trying to fix my shyness and other things and just be me, but me is reserved, quiet, independent, and not very outgoing. I feel like a fake every time I successfully put on my act of a cool outgoing guy (which is a lot). I can sit in a room by myself for hours and never feel bored. I really want to be someone people look up to seeing, like two of my friends I left by moving to a new town. I really wish to emulate them. They were never afraid of what people thought of them, and for that, they were hillarious, super-energetic, spontaneous,always happy when seen, and they were amazingly confident. Being with them was amazing, I could even tell my friend was laughing at anything I thought was funny, just to make me feel funny, and I did feel pretty funny around him. It seems I do actually have another personality deep inside of me. I can remember a few times it came out, for example, when I have an energy drink, when I went to homecoming, and other days. I dont have a planned set of friends that I hang out with, or even a best friend who I hang out with for that matter. I really want to have this kind of feeling on people, because it would make me feel great on the inside and outside. So, is this kind of change possible with a paraliminal, or is it just another fantasy I have? BTW, I tried Personal Magnetism about 4 times now, and it has helped a little, but im still not the person with a smile on their face around people. I really need a BIG change, one that will change me forever.
Add on: People think im a snob sometimes, and they think im disinterested in them because I dont show my emotions very much, and become disinterested in me a lot

We are all able to change and one thing that may help is accepting yourself as you are. And make changes from there. I like the Personal Celebration set for this and Self Esteem Supercharger. And I would experiment with Creating Sparks using yourself as the significant other and have a healing relationship. And for reading, Philip G. Zimbardo has a book called Shyness: What It Is, What to Do About It. I know that the exercises explained will help you find friends, handle feelings that come up. And finding other specialist and resources. You must also remember that you are not alone in this, millions of other peole are experiencing this. But you have the courage to ask help and change.

Its not that im super shy or anything! I accept who I am perfectly and I just want to make some changes. When I was growing up, I didnt have the same experiences my friends had, and that why I am who I am today. Maybe they have a hyper gene or something, idk? But everyone should have the chance to be who they want to be. I mean this is something that will make me happy. BTW- I have the Ultimate You Library of paraliminals, so has any of those paraliminals helped you people to talk to people easier.

Check out some books on personality type- especialy Myers Briggs.
Paul Tieger has some good consumer level ones such as "please understand me" or "do what you are"

Not everyone is naturaly extroverted, or highly social. Some people are more logical, some are more introverted. And it is all good! Once you understand yourself and your natural talents, you can begin to balance yourself out, develop areas that are paler than others.

As far as what others admire and look up to- it is different for everyone. Some people are very attracted to those who are quiet, and shy away from extroverts...

New Behaviour Generator and Belief come to mind, for developing abilities that you admire in others. Still, cellebrating who and how you already are is by far the best place to start.

vitaman

Its hard to celebrate who I am when people think theres something wrong with me cuz I dont talk alot.

I went through that exact same thing but my problem was I was around the wrong people and drawn to the wrong people just start loving yourself showing gratitude for everything I suggest you get Sonic access and the succes principles within three months watch the world around you start changing

Exactly what does Sonic Access do? What have been your results?

Its hard to explain with me it opened me more and removed some mental blocks I had some cool real like dreams of me watering gardens on the success on on the spiritaul one I had dreams of me being on a small island jumping across to another side..The dream when I was watering gardens are my good seeds I have planted and the jumping across a island was a personal barrier. Slowly but surely I am changing getting things done and such but remember do not dig up your seeds or tell people (toxic people) about it or it might kill the seed or slow the growth down alot.

Man, I just got back from a party. I began getting dizzy feeling, so I was sitting around talking to my mom lol. I was talking to a kid 2 years younger, and I had to fake laugh. I just noticed that it takes alot to make me laugh, because I saw a funny movie, and I only laughed in like 1 part, when everyone was like ROFL the whole movie. I felt very anti-social and I had no motivation to talk to anyone. I really want to enjoy these Christmas and New Years Eve parties. I really want to start conversations, and not be tired in social settings. Does anyone know which CDs I should listen to? My goal is to enjoy at least my new years eve party at my house, and be a good co-host.

New Behavior generator use the sleep track and write affrimations before you go to bed. New history will work too