Hmmm...interesting thought, worth exploring.
I forgot to write that I notice these things when I am not at work- but at home in the evening and on the weekend, when I am not with him. I think that is why it disturbs me so. My first reaction was "OMG, I hope I am not modeling him!"
While I believe everyone has ability and value, (otherwise I would not do this work!) I understand that people can have limitations as well. (Such as delayed neurological development) While I always want to model skills and abilities, realisticaly, some will not pick it up...
I am going to explore the idea that this is a way of understanding his state...that could be very useful.
