Thank you vitaman for your response.
And, I have told them how I feel in action and words but one of them told me "you know it's all endearment!!!!" I felt more insulted because he thought I was a fool or something. Once or twice a month is okay but not every single day and multiple times a day. This person who tried to minimize my upset also calls me "bi-polar" because I am a happy person by nature but it doesn't take much (according to him) to tick me off.
In the last 1 year, I have been given so many labels and it is all since the new boss started. Before she started, I was known as a hardworking good worker and didn't have anyone 'bothering' me so to speak.
You didn't mention where I can look up the W.I.N. strategy so I can get started on it. I will see if my friend has the two paraliminals you mentioned, if not, I think it will be a great gift to myself, from myself for the new year.
Thank you again for your thoughts and suggestions.
