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You might ask yourself why you have been staying in an abusive environment...and if this is the kind of environment you want to work in? If not, then is is probably time to get your resume out and ask around for opportuntities...dont suddenly quit- get another job and THEN quit.

You might also ask yourself (and maybe others) why people have been so harsh with you. Is there a reason for them to be envious or upset ? If so, what can you do differently, what can you improve? You can have power by choosing to be accountable- not by being a victim.

vitaman




Hi Vita-man,

Just wanted you to know that I spent a lot of time over the holidays to think about my situation and, thanks to everybody's support here, I have decided to remove myself from the toxic environment at work. It is not a decision that I took lightly but, no matter what I say to my work mates and no matter what I do at work to improve the situation, I will not be able to change the people I work with, so why try? Instead, I will endeavour to change myself and start fresh.

I have already sent out my resume to a couple of people and I feel quite optimistic. Could be the paraliminals and subliminals giving me hope, but either way, we are what we think and these tapes make me think that I deserve better than what has been put on my plate thus far.

Life is too beautiful and short to worry about venomous work mates. I can use that energy to build new relationships. And hopefully next time, with the help of IPM, I will not give anyone else a chance to label me or treat me disrespectfully.

Thanks again. And thanks EVERYONE here. You have been absolutely wonderful to me. I would have otherwise spent a very depressing holiday season. Instead, I made good use of the time off.

Thanks!