This may not answer your question, but I thought it was interesting.
There was one story in the course where the family had a 20 year conflict star on their front door. They never actually used the front door except when they had their children over for holidays. Their marriage kept intact because they always used the back door. However, all of their children all suffered divorce. After they did a cure for the conflict star, the children found new partners and lived happily ever after.
Although the front door may not have an effect on you if you never use it, it may have an effect on your descendants.
One thing you may want to try is to do the star charts both ways, and see if you can tell which is correct. For instance, if one of the charts puts the power star on a child's room who seems to be in control of the house, perhaps you've found the correct chart.
