Just to make things more confusing --

I had tried to use the "Get Around To It" program with some slight results. Things only improved "somewhat."

Then someone here said they'd tried the Personal Magnetism program for that same thing, and had great results. I pulled out my PM CD and sure enough, that one really did the trick. When I backslide a bit, I listen again. It always helps.

I think the one thing that makes that particular program work for non-magnetism issues is that you imagine someone you admire (in my case, someone I know who is a real go-getter) and sort of imagine yourself taking on those qualities. And for me, it really works. Now I use it for lots of things, not just "magnetism"--but probably its helping in that regard, too.