The local library is an excellent source for material that will help.

In the business section 3 books that I like are. What colour is Your Parachute. Use this for planning your life and making choices to get there.
How to get control of your time and your life. (Alan Lakein) This is a powerful time management tool making for the best use of productive capabilities and to minimize wasteful time.
The One Minute Sales Person is a great book. It has beautiful concepts and shows you how to use your mind to achieve results and the principals can be used universally
In the self-help section Take a look at some of these books. Bradshaw on: The Family A new way of creating Self Esteem. (John Bradshaw) Loving What is (Byron Katie) Unlimited Futures by (Bobbie Stevens.)
John Bradshaw has many of his subjects on tapes you may be able to find them in the tapes and video section in your library. You can ask the librarian for assistance in finding this and much more.