The Seven-step Process isn't something you just do once. You work with and visualise daily on it until you have set the foundation solid and can see something working toward your goal. Something within your goal does not agree with what you say you want. Condition 2 in step one Clarity is a problem because it's not entirely within your control.
With that in mind I suggest you go back to doing the Inquiry Process because you and your partner are not in agreement on the marriage and children. It wasn't a shared ideal. You'll need to work through that in order to move on. Whether to reconciliation or amicable parting of ways so you can find a partner who shares your vision. That would be the starting point of marriage and family.
Alex
