Not liking to hear one's own voice or see a photo of oneself I've yet to meet someone who doesn't make a fuss about that. The image of ourselves in our mind is never the one we have of ourselves when we see a photo or hear our voices so the majority avoid it like a phobia.
There is a problem though with your idea of looking from the outside at yourself. Try as you might your point of view will always be from within you and what you perceive as outside is a projection of what comes from within you. Outside or inside it's your creation. Fear it, accept it or realise it's a creation of your inner self and you can change it.
FEAR;
Fear is False Emotions Appearing Real. And to quote from the movie the Princess Diary. Courage is not the absence of Fear it's doing what is more important.
Alex
