D2C,
Me and everybody else can only give you our own thoughts, what we think. It's up to you choose which advice you take. Though you dont' have much to loose when trying if some Paraliminal worked for your situation.
If I were you, I would think it through, what for I wanted to change my identity, or what for I want that nobody says anythin bad about me. These two may well be the same thing, but I wouldn't know before I think it through. What's more important than the thing you want?
My 2 €cents