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more recent events where it may have possibly started from
The fact of the matter is you're not really sure when the belief started. If you could easily point to when and why it started you would change your belief in an instant.
I would suggest you allow yourself to go down the timeline and let your instinct find the events. Leave it to the inner mind and let go of the conscious analytical thinking of the how, why, when and where the problem belief started. When using the belief tape keep you focus on the desired outcome. While looking at events in the past that may have caused the current belief... remember you're just looking. No one can really say when their belief about something started or when and why it changed. Just go with the flow and let the inner mind handle it.
BTW your reaction to the 'relationship' and how it played out is probably a learned response from your past. So avoid limiting it to where you think the problem started. Take the flash from your past that your inner mind offers when you are working with the paraliminal, leave the judgement of if its 'the' right event. There may be other events, your inner mind will work it out.
Alex
