Howdy. I just ordered the Self-esteem Supercharger because I was dealing with some of the same things. I already have the New Behavior Generator, but the fear and the insecurity have severely limited my success with it. Based on your response, I am not sure if the self-esteem tape is really going to help me very much. Shouldn't a tape for self-esteem cure, or at least help with the fear of rejection? Isn't that a self-esteem issue? Since money is pretty tight right now, I can't afford to keep buying new tapes over and over. I haven't gotten the tape yet and I'm not sure if I bought the right one now. Is it possible that using the self-esteem tape over a long period of time would help with this problem?