I would suggest Personal Magnetism and Belief. However, dispite the title I would say that Belief is the better tape.
I would just use NLP with affirmation and visualizations of acceptance. The Belief tape will help you instill these beliefs you create in the positive affirmations.
Here are some things to try for affirmations:
I am pleasant surprise by how much people like me.
I notice people's non-verbal expression of acceptance and affection.
I'm a happy energetic person and people are naturally drawn to me.
People want to hear want I have to say, and I positively impact their lives.
If you'r just starting with NLP affirmations and visualizations. Make sure to include the surprise and notice ones. They are the most fun and I believe the most effective when starting to change an attitude. You can use any affirmations, but those kind are very good at the start. They are low expectation and make you more alert for the positive things that exist in your life.
Much Happiness,
Iam2 
