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Dear Decision2change,


What you need to do is to experience the other person fully. Do not try to change them, stop judging and being critical and start to experience them. Step back and watch them like a movie and then you will start to know how to respond.

When you start doing this - accepting the person as they are, no longer being judgmental and critical, your perceptions will change and you will feel happier.

It costs nothing to try - it is simple , practical and it works!

Love and light
Faune



Hi Faune, thanks and I agree - I cannot change other people.
My problem is not that I don't appreciate qualities in other people. My problem is that I do - then I like them more, and I get scared - then I end up doing things that messes up the relationship. The fault totally lies within me. It's a constant working progress!