The confusion is actually desirable. It helps your conscious mind turn of the critical censor. The inner voice that says you can't and allows your mind to explore the I cans instead.
Just listen down the middle. If you are swayed to listen one side or the other it's fine. If you switch sides that's fine too. For the most part you just listen down the middle. The ironic thing about the confusion... it's stress releasing, because your conscious mind cannot keep up it just lets go and along with that can go a lot of stress and tension if you allow it.
Alex
