First off, three paraliminals in one day is AWESOME, I commend you on getting started on your mission immediately and wholeheartedly.
What if we view your understanding to improve your administration skills as a message. And depending on your beliefs, this message could be from your intuition, the universe, or “God” if you will? Obviously we know for sure that your conscious mind understood your position, coupled with a large workload, and a desire for improvement. This eventually led to taking positive action with ordering and implementing the new Paraliminals.
Where the beauty of this situation appears, is the same place it looks like a tragedy. Bare with me, as I see this as a wonderful example of how in tune you are with your surroundings. For you to be aware that your administration skills are your weakest area and to have your manager be on the same page, shows that you know what is going on in your environment. So, on a positive level you are flowing like the tide with the influence of the moon; in perfect harmony.
As far as the aftermath, obviously we know having the volcano erupt at work is not generally preferred, and yet as Oxygen eluded to, maybe it was a long time a’brewin. Well, isn’t it nice to have that over with? And any potential self punishing tendencies that may have gone along with this occurrence would only be harmful and unfair to impose on yourself. What good things can you receive from this? You and your boss feel the same way, does he or she know that you are taking strides to improve your administration skills? Is your whole life falling apart, or does it feel that way because you are usually the pillar of strength or the model of even temperedness? One can only speculate on your internal personal understanding. However, this is a great opportunity to take a look at what works and what is potentially not serving your highest good.
Here’s a suggestion geared for improving the work situation. Maybe address the people at work in a meeting, this way you can communicate your feelings about the heavy workload, and possibly be able to delegate out some of the overflow to those who are able to help. Also, you can let everyone know how you felt about the incident, because in the grand scheme of your life this is a learning experience , if you allow it to be so. And I guarantee you are not alone on this one, as others will probably admit to being upset in their lifetimes. Also, that would be a great time to tell the office about your strides to improve your situation with administration skills by explaining your use of the paraliminals. Most people have no idea what these are, and who knows, maybe someone (I say everyone) can potentially benefit immensely by the use of paraliminals in their life. This experience has the potential to make your working environment better than ever. I am Joe Gung-ho with these things (Paraliminals), so I tell anyone that is ready to listen and learn about these awesome tools.
Do you meditate? Do you have the “Deep Relaxation” Paraliminal? How about children? Children are wonderful, and when we spend time with them we tend to forget the stresses of the work week. Also, they bring us back to remembering we have an inner child in all off us.(i.e. the neglected friend) Maybe some fresh air, a trip to the park with your kid(s). No children, then maybe bring your nieces and nephews to the park. The options are almost endless, so whatever gets you outside with the fresh air and body movement is movement toward a relaxed mental sate of being. Mother Nature always loves to nurture us in her cradle. Only in a relaxed state of mind are we able to accurately assess a situation and really see the benefits. Take care of yourself, you‘re worth it! : -)
~Ka-ley Mother Earth~
