I got the Instant Personal Magnetism a few days back and have used it four or five times so far. It seems to be pretty effective. I have used a model that has the characteristics I want to develope, but I don't think that I can do it. Even if I could copy the behavior itself, it would still look completely different. I have no idea how to obtain the qualities since they are the opposite of where I am at right now. I have always been very nervous and insecure and my model is strong and assertive. I also got the Self_Esteem Supercharger, but it is not enough. I am trying develope both the behavior and especially the qualities behind the behaviors. Ten different people could have the exact same behaviors and each one might come across completely different. Most of those 'qualities' are subconcious and I don't know how to copy them because they are completely out of my experience. My question is, if I stick with the tape, will I eventually be able to develope the qualities I am aiming for? How long does it take to begin seeing results?