With IPM, take things one bite at a time. Think of the blockages you can easily shore up, like maybe picking your nose in public or something banal like that. As you build up a history of success, you can shore up more esoteric blockages.
IPM is more of a "take away." It sounds like you want to "add." For that, I'd recommend New Behavior Generator. Although it's common in NLP to say "don't think about what you DON'T want," sometimes it helps. Just subtract the energy leaks until the powerful, magnetic person at the core of your being shines forth strongly.
One thing you might want to do is consider changing your frame of mind. If your library has it, there is a wonderful book called "The Introvert Advantage." Remember, Ras Tafari was a very demure man. He just had very few blockages, and the ability to plan very far ahead. Although it has been theorized through Y-chromosone research that one out of every 200 men is decended from Ghengis Khan, it doesn't mean that you have to act like him.
