also a big thankyou from me!!! Very helpful and interesting. I'm passing it onto others and I think you are right on with this! Thanks for taking the time to post.

Also GentleGiant what you say about the heart and gut fills in some gaps for me. I've always had a hard time understanding what they say about 'follow your heart'. So following your heart is that feeling you get in your heart space, I do get that feeling also! yeah! Now I know how to follow my heart and also to follow your gut too!