I am kind of confused by your posts here. It sounds like you have pretty much made up your mind that these "don't work" (and I am still wondering what happens when they "do work"! In other words, what are the results that you were led to expect that did not yet happen).
So I am not sure what you were looking for here. It feels to me like any suggestions made, you have either already done or have moved beyond them.
So, what was the point of this message? Was it to help the rest of us so we can spare our time and money? In other words, were you trying to have us benefit from your experience?
I ask these questions in all sincerity.
On the other hand, you might just be confirming for yourself and for us the old "YMMV" point and you might be saying "I think these things might work, but they just don't work for me".
I again admit, I am not sure if they do or don't "work" (whatever that means). I know I am still having some serious issues, but I have recently discovered that most of these are due to life long ADD. And with ADD even with medication, there is other work to be done to help manage the challenges: sometimes therapy, exercise, diet, coaching, organizational assistance, new strategies etc.
I see Paraliminals as a kind of "audio supplement" (just as vitamins and minerals are intended as supplements). I.e. NOT the main "diet", because that must be other kinds of work (as you say, career work etc). In other words, even if the Paraliminals DID "work" (again, whatever that means), there would probably still have to be lots of other work to do, depending on the intensity of the challenge/problem/issue/obstacle, whatever.
However, if you are at the place where you can just say, "enough with the self-help: now back to work!", either you NEVER really needed this stuff in the first place or if you did and now you can actually do something about what you want to do, I am still unclear on what "didn't work".
In other words, if you can just focus on your professional work, and your are more effective at doing that and it satisfies you, maybe one of the Paraliminals did work!
I am not doubting your message, just not understanding it. If you can now be effective in your work in such a way that you don't need the Paraliminals, maybe they did work?
See, this is not only your problem, but I know I share it to some extent: what is supposed to happen? What am I expecting and what is the result of success? I ask these questions, because I am sometimes fuzzy about what are good examples of this. I know what it looks like on the outside to some extent. And I know I have experienced some various degrees of success. But I am not always sure what I should expect or am getting with the Paraliminals. But I have often had the same problem with medicine and with therapy.
Part of the reason I am spending the time asking you, is you seem to have a very clear idea of what should have happened for you, but didn't.
Can you help us further by explaining more what that was or is? Maybe focus on one Paraliminal.
I think I know what you might be expecting from PR, but even there, that might just be my assumption. I also assume that you have spent time both on the forum and with phone coaching asking these questions.
If not, then YOU are assuming that just because you are spending a lot of time and effort, you are doing it right. It is possible, that you are actually trying TOO hard and that though you feel relaxed, you expectations are so high and so hard that it actually blocks the success?
Maybe not.
I really don't know. But I feel very confused and unclear about your posts. Please give just one example of : a) some one benefit that you were expecting, but did not get and b) an example of a person who experienced results with little effort. For a), describe what it would look/feel/sound/be like if Paraliminal "X" had "really worked" (that might be helpful to me, either to avoid that image or perhaps even to embrace it, since I often have trouble knowing what success should or would look/feel/sound/be like).
I mean, is it even vaguely possible that these things ARE working for you, but you are not aware of it because of some other resistance? Maybe not, but is it totally out of the question?
I guess I want these things to work after spending a lot of money and time on them. And I guess this message reflects that.
But I will tell you this: even if PR "does not work" and Paraliminals also have no efficacy, I will always be grateful for LSC and do not begrudge them the money I have spent if for only one reason alone: SPRING FOREST QIGONG!!!
I have been doing various forms of Tai Chi and qigong for over 25 years. And I learned a lot and got lots of benefit from all of them. But SFQ for me at least is not only in a different ball park, it is a league apart.
Even if, heaven forfend, everything else that LSC sells has no value (at least for me, and so far, I don't feel that), SFQ does. It is the real deal and a great gift, and it was not only worth the money and effort I have spent on it, but also all the money and effort I spent on every other LSC product before and after I discovered SFQ here.
I mean no disrespect to your questions or posts, but I am confused.
Anyway, I do hope whatever you do, you have more success and get what you want from your own life.
