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I have the ultimate set of paraliminals and have been using them off and on since receiving about 12 months ago.

I see little changes that are positive each time I listen to one but I have a very desperate situation in my life and I need some guidance on what would be best listened to, for how long and in what order (if applicable).

I realise this may be a huge ask.

The situation is financial - I have a extremely desperate financial situation and if I don't see significant changes within the week I think it is all over. What I wan is to have the money ($10k +) to pay some creditors - that is just the start.

I then need another $10k to bed things down a bit and be back on deck.

And that is just the beginning.

My stress levels are running at an all time high.

Can somebody give me guidance. I can see the paraliminals are working but I need them to work bigger and faster for me - not just these tiny baby steps.

Thank you.



Wow. I would maybe first focus on Deep Relaxation. After that, try either Prosperity or Self-Esteem Supercharger.

One thing I would do along with the Paraliminals, is change the program a bit. And one way to do that is to use affirmations. Write them out at least 10 times a day. Put them in the present tense and in the positive.

For example: "My financial situation is healthy and well. I am experiencing financial abundance beyond my needs right now"

Or something to that effect.

This does take some time, but results can often be very dramatic.

And as I think Yogi Berra once said, "It ain't over 'til it's over!"

So much of life seems to be to live with the Tao (or Dao). It is important to get back into the flow. And along with the affirmations, it is important to visualize what you want. See it, or feel it, or hear it or think it really hard. Do this for at least a few minutes every day.

I think it is Maxwell Maltz in his wonderful and classic work, "Psychocybernetics" points out that we already do this with negative things and fears! And we do it automatically! It takes a little more practice to do it with positive outcomes.

He says that many fears go through the following process, but usually in the space of second or less:
1) "OHMYGAWD! ____________(whatever the fear or worry) could happen!"
2) "Well, if it could happen, maybe it really will happen!"
3) "Well, if maybe it really will happen, then probably it really will happen!"
4) "Oh, no, this will happen!"

Now, whether the worry happens or not, we often experience all the negative effects of it happening throughout the process and until the thing either happens or does not happen. And this kind of thing rarely, if ever helps us.

So Dr. Maltz, suggests trying the same process but with the postive outcome:

1) "OHMYGAWD! Having all the money I need could happen!"
2) "Well, if it could happen, then maybe it really will happen!"
3) "Well, if maybe it really will happen, then probably it really will happen!"
4) "Oh, yes! This will happen!"


Now, he points out that this takes longer at first, because most of us are not used to this, at least in many areas of our life, as far as postive outcomes (or at least on those we are working on. On the other hand, most of us, DO do this for things like a paper cut: "This will probably heal" to "This will heal", usually is automatic for many things).

So he suggests an exercise. I did this a part of a meditation I was leading with a group of people. It was very effective:

At least start with "X (whatever the postive outcome you are looking for) is at least possible".

Try and go from there to, "Well, if it is possible, it could happen!"

That is where you need to use whatever Paraliminal and written affirmations along with visualization you will do.

This does take some work.

But at the point you are at, you have nothing to lose, by dedicating a few minutes each day to such an exercise along with a Paraliminal.

See the outcome you want. Focus on that. Every time, the worry or fear comes in, substitute either any positive thought about ANY subject or the exact opposite of the negative thought.

Be rigorous! Know that you are part of an abundant universe that is providing all of your needs and always will.

And I (and I am sure others as well) will hold you in my meditations for postive energy, healing and abundance. May it be so for you!

blessings,

Steve