It's hard to explain magical theory in something as condense as a discussion forum.
Suffice it to say that the brain requires energy in order to think a thought, and thinking thoughts of your ex-love is taking energy that could be used for curing diseases, ending world hunger, or killing things in a video game.
The link I posted above has the pattern for performing an exorcism in the tradition of Solomon. Another way to reclaim your energy is "recapituation," a form of energized breathing where you "breath out" the energy she gave to you, and "breath in" the energy you gave to her.
If you have an interest in Sorcery, I'd suggest visiting True Mind
[This message has been edited by Kaiden (edited July 07, 2003).]
