Is this a new paraliminal? "You Deserve It"? I have not come across it before.
As for me - know your self first. What is it that you really want in a mate? Once you have the answer, you can move from there. Sometimes, it is not just the self esteem but rather one's self concept that limits people.
As for me, I have worked on myself all this year. I know who I am deep down and what or who I will be happy with. Now, I am unleashing INTENT.
It has to manifest within 1 year. It will manifest within 1 year. No ifs or buts about it!