In order to get over, you first must want to get over her. It sounds like you still want her and are hanging on to thought that there is a chance of her coming back. No sir. You just need to tell your self "whats done can not be undone" and move on. There are many fish in the see. With some true determination to get over her and the paraliminal tapes you should get over it in no time. Good Luck
-Benny