Excellent advice, Benny.
I'm going to take it myself, as hard as it is. Although part of me balks at it, the words of Christ (Matthew, 18:22) run through my head. When your other-than-conscious mind starts feeding me Bible passages, I know someone's struck a powerful nerve.
All my advice, listed above, is but dust and shadow compared to your brilliant observation, Benny. Thank you for helping me help myself.
