Hi I am new to the site and have been using paraliminals for a couple of months. A year ago I split from my partner of 14 years and thought that I was ok but since using the paraliminals I have gone to pieces. I cry every day, or howl would be closer to the mark and I am feeling the worse pain that I have ever felt.It is like someone has died. My point is I dont think that the paraliminals should be used to stop feeling pain even though it is hard to endure. I am still listening to the paraliminals and my goal is to allow myself to feel the pain and not repress it. I cant describe how hurt I feel all the time but at least I am feeling how I should after losing my partner and best friend for the last 14 years of my life.