Look at "Loving What Is : Four Questions that Can Change Your Life" By Byron Katie. Your one paragraph below is a perfect canidate to go through this process. Obviously, these are your beliefs and how can you see anything else through these filter.
He won't even touch me.
He used to be a very sexual person and now I'm lucky if he drapes his arm on me during sleep.
He is very stressed at work and works long hours (it's an internet start-up, and he's one of the head guys).
Now let me just throw this out there...I am a young, attractive woman.
Blond hair, green eyes, petite, curvy. No concerns there.
But now I find him giving more affection to the puppy than to me!
He comes home and goes straight to pet the puppy and give him a hug.
I just stand there, say hello and he walks around me as if I'm contagious.
The only time he says "I love you" is when he leaves for work...so not romantic.
So I feel like I get rejected over and over again.
