Hello,
I have been single by choice for 3 years now after my divorce. Although I feel now that I am ready to meet some nice women, I find myself restricted by some bad habits which I think are preventing me from meeting women (& people in general).
Some of my habits/beliefs:
1. I have become very lazy (:-))... Work, home, work.. No desire to go out. Come home after work. Spend time on my computer, watching TV, sleeping etc. Even when I have plans to go out.. I find myself chickening out last minute and avoiding going out... It feels safer/more comfortable to stay home and do my own things.
2. Belief that I am old... I turned 38 this month.. been without dating for 3 years... by choice.. even though when I go out, I find much younger and very attractive girls getting attracted to me... girls in early 20s etc... but this belief of being old is keeping me limited.
I am generally considered Ok looking and in the past I was considered attractive to women.. plus I don't have apparent confidence issues that I know of...
I have all paraliminals plus several of the courses: Euphoria, Resiliency, Consistent Achievement, Ideal Mindset, Spring forest Qigong, Photoreading, and just waiting for Diamond Feng Shui.
Which would be the best approach for me to address my issues and become super-social again ?.... and meet some lovely ladies and finally find someone who I can have a family with.
Thanks in advance
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