Hallo there! Welcome to the club of the lazy and the lonely! Been there, wished that, promised change for self and even spent a lot of time listening to paraliminals. Nothing helped. ... that is until now!
In my personal experience, the paraliminals (and indeed such is the case with everything else in our lives, especially when it comes to change) nothing will work if we don't believe in it!
What I mean by that is we truly (I mean really!!) be ready for change. Saying it or believing it on the surface is going to make no difference.
You say you are ready - so why not try your readiness with work colleagues? Don't rush into finding a g/f but rather friends - male/female and even the in betweens.
Go out with them. Socialize with people you work with but have never actually met formally. Make the effort of looking good. Spending $ socializing. Getting back into the habit of smiling and listening. Meeting new people will be easier if there are no strings attached - i.e. "looking for a relationship". I say this from experience. Downside of this is that you get all sorts of people attracted to you. But I am sure you will be able to handle it!
Once you know you are ready - listen to Decisive Action to map your short term future. Followed by Ideal Mindset.
I have found that these two are currently helping me achieve the same goal you seek. And by the way - I "USED TO BE" lazy, okay looking and old.
You will notice changes sooner than you think. (I have just become so sure and happy about my future. I feel it inside out that I know what I am doing and where I am going. And I love the destination I have created for myself through these paraliminals and the LOA. But first - you have to know if you are truly ready!!!).
Good luck!
Last edited by decision2change; 12/01/07 04:10 AM.
