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Thanks for your help man !

I agree with what you say, but I don't understand how one can be " truely be ready for change" ??

I can listen to the courses, do the exercises but how can I force myself to feel the emotional state that you are describing ?

Daken



When it feels like an effort. When you think you are forcing yourself. When you look at it as work or can't be bothered then you are not ready.

You are ready when you are excited, passionate and looking forward to doing something.

How do you get there? I don't know. I personally have done many things along the way to make myself ready. Today, when people see me they are once again saying "what has she been drinking" or "wow she is fun to be with!" - this was not there in the last couple of years and 2006 was totally different programming I was receiving from people around me.

I can only tell you what I "think" worked for me. After all, I am my thoughts right? And what worked for me is listening to one meditation CD that I keep blabbing about here (you will find it in almost 70% of my posts).

I say THAT is the thing that worked for me because I got INSTANT answer. Once I got the answer, I somehow knew what to do and went on from there.

I use paraliminals mostly for BEHAVIOURAL changes and not necessarily to attract change. I use IPM to behave in a manner that is acceptable to others. I use relationship paraliminal to help me not judge. I use decisive action and ideal mindset to avoid procrastination. I love listening to new behavioural changes because it helps me stay focused on emulating my role model.

But that said, I am sure every bit of resources I own or borrow have helped somehow in their own way. The "SUM" meditation however magically showed me my destiny instantly!