Hi Scooter - I have not tried a paraliminal for this issue however one thing that helped me was Tony Robbin's Personal Power program. My personality changed from a shy person to an obnoxious person (because I didn't know the meaning of "boundaries" at the time).

Later on, when I started listening to other gurus like Canfield and Tracy I started to walk on the ground again. But - because of Tony Robbins I no longer entertain fear. When it creeps up, even for 1 second, I squash it with NLP.

May I also suggest that you read Dr. Nathaniel Branden's book titled "The Art of Living Consciously". I think many challenges you face now will disappear the moment you start working on your self concept.

His "The Psychology of high self-esteem" is also a powerful book. This Doctor totally changed my idea of me. And because of him (mainly) - I love me and know that everything around me is blooming.

I believe that if we are not ready - no tool will help. Not my prized possession The Secret of Universal Mind meditation. Not any will or determination. Not any paraliminals or any of the Kelly Howell mind programs.

Everything starts from within us - Dr. Branden helps you build a stronger you. A you that you will RESPECT and learn to love and spoil. Once you do that, every self expectation of you changes (for the better!) and with that people around magically (well not really, but it feels like that) accept you - JUST AS YOU ARE!

Hmm.. this is just me, feeling exquisite again about the progress I have made this year. I wish the same for you too. Joy and abundance in every good area of your life!

Last edited by decision2change; 12/07/07 09:20 PM.