Aloha JohnA,
Having a spouse that is in the same "west" or "East" group makes things convenient when placing the bed and shared office desk, but you'll be doing your own activation cards as will they, no matter of you share the same directions or not.
I focus more on what you desire in your relationship and future partner and that they be he best possible match for your highest good, rather than narrowing it down to another "East/West" person as yourself. Spend time with that relationship card!
Much Love, Shawn
