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Shakurav Thank you, I just bought the paraliminal accelerator and the 4 last paraliminals

Vita-man, I am not sure I understand what you mean by always have phrase objectives in the positive because If I read the booklets, often we are ask to say what's wrong and after say how we would like it to be instead. So, can I just start every paraliminals and say the goal in the positive way and that's it ?

SNOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!! We still have a lot here ))))

Last 2 nights, there was a lot again and apparently there will be more snow

where are you in the west coast ?

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If I read the booklets, often we are ask to say what's wrong and after say how we would like it to be instead.




Exactly.

Examples:

I want to lose 800 lbs.

wrong objective: I am NOT really really fat (not stated in positive)
right objective: I am at my ideal weight and I feel great

I am broke and live under a bridge.

wrong objective: I DON'T have to beg for whiskey money every day
right objective: I have a steady job with a nice income


I really want to kill my significant other

wrong objective: I DON'T wish he died a slow, horrible death
right objective: My SO and I get along swimmingly, and have lots and lots of earth shatteringly blissful sex

or something like that.

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Hello George,

Ok, thank you very much, I will try to understand exactly what you are writting, not sure I understand completely. Well, I mean that I think that I don't have to say the negative part first, is that it ???

Sorry, it must be my understanding in English.

I understand you when you wrote that I have to explain in the positive side what I want, but there is still this negative answer I have to give when I am ask what is the problem situation you want to change for example.

Hope my english is understandable.

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f I read the booklets, often we are ask to say what's wrong and after say how we would like it to be instead.




here, you need to focus on the what you would like instead. Thinking of what is wrong first helps you to identify the opposite. when you start listening keep in mind the what you you would like it to be instead.

For example, I am overweight, and I would like to be 1% lighter, this time next week. So in your mind, you see yourself 1% lighter. Keep a journal of your experiences, good and bad. The Paraliminal may highlight the reason for a over eating. when you see that you may find it wise to use another Paraliminal to deal with that.

The problem with weight related issues, is that often there is a reason for the behaviour. It is a protective device. We cannot take that protection away if we lead the original problem behind.

This is where the New History Generator,Break the Habit, Anxiety Free or Self-Esteem Supercharger might be necessary to deal with the original problem.

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Relax & open up your spirit & expectations. Let your subconscious brain do the work, not your conscious mind since that's always cluttered with alot of junk. Let go of trying to control the process, just let it flow. Sometimes we have alot more clutter to deal with than we realize & as you use the CD the noise & clutter will start to break up. Remember, on the conscious level we are very defensive & in denial of the deep issues. It may take a little longer for you than someone else, your brain is working through it, be patient & persistent. It does work, relax & enjoy the journey.

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Thank you very much cms1250 you write words that help me a lot right now.

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Hi,

I actually just returned You Deserve IT! because I think it just wasn't right for me. I'm going to give the paraliminals another shot though by trying out Properity.

For some reason, I grew VERY scared of the You Deserve It! After really thinking about it and having some coworkers try it, I think it was just the echo voice of Paule Scheele. There are so many movies etc out there about "mind control" etc that have jaded us as a people so I think my guard was raised just because in all my extensive research on paraliminals I didn't find anything that really explained the semi hypnosis function of the CD.

One thing I did notice is that I desperately wanted the CD to work and got a little defensive when others were too creeped out to try it. The 4th time I listened, I imagined a time that I was on trial, age 6. I was too embarrassed to tell the court what abuse happened. In my imaginings, I was an adult and I went right past the police guards and told the little girl that she didn't have to say a damn thing... I protected her and it was OK that she, my self way back when, didn't name the exact detail thus allowing the child molestor a short sentence.

What I'm saying it that I might not have been ready for the You Deserve It! paraliminal. Maybe I'll have an easier time with Prosperity, then I'll give the self esteem supercharger a shot because $35 includes the S&H where as the Hoffman Institute is $4000 and those weekend seminars that do the same thing are usually a couple hundred dollars.

So I say have an open mind, feel safe and get really into it. Mostly though, give it a shot. :-) BLESS YOU AND GOOD LUCK

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Hi Isabelle,

I'm not trying to chase you around the forum boards, but I think I may be able to shed a bit of light on your stuck state.

You said,

"I am normally quite independant woman and I need to understand everything by myself before asking for help (it's not because of proudness, it,s because of the way I grew up, I was left alone to take care of myself, it's just this)."

Such a traumatic and deeply damaging situation can cause many deep-seated problems, many of which you may not even be aware.

I would guess that inside you are roiling resentment, fear, abandonment issues, insecurity, and belligerence; even if they never come to the surface, they are likely still to be there inside you.

Perhaps your lack of success with losing weight comes from a subconscious fear of not knowing whether you'll be able to eat again.

I have struggled with many of these emotions, for reasons similar to yours, though mine occurred to me when I was an adult (barely).

I have successfully used the New History Generator, the New Behavior Generator, and the New Options Generator to identify and work through these strong emotions that were holding me back.

You have much to be proud of in your character, Isabelle. You are seeking to improve yourself, and really working hard at it, too. You deserve to succeed, and your hard work will bring you your desires.

If you have any of the three Generators, I would suggest beginning with them. The New History Generator, if you have it, would be the one to start with, and the one that will bring you the greatest success. Be sure to follow the instructions Paul gives at the beginning of the CD.

Anxiety-Free will help you work through any negative emotions you may have about your previous lacks and their impacts on your life today.

You could also try Deep Relaxation, to give your body and mind a chance to unwind and renew. This might allow your subconscious to reveal to you the emotions holding it in bondage.

I do hope that you find a way to use the paraliminals to change your life to your satisfaction.

Best wishes,

~Grey


Science is organized knowledge. Wisdom is organized life.



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