Your welcome.
In the midst of one of my darkest hours I read a qoute by Wayne Dyer. "Change the way we look at things and the things we look at change."
That was before I discovered gratitude...after sobering up I managed to put the two of them together.
All of the worst things in my life have brought about the biggest changes, so if I change the way I look at it, its really the best thing that could happen to me!!
Granted its hard to go thru them, but if I can remain gratiful during the process I can remember that its the best thing for me in reverse!!
Dan