According to the Tao Te Ching quote from Jeffrey's post above, I do not understand.
I agree: I don't!
I like that quote from the Tao Te Ching.
That's why I write these things out. To help myself understand.
I hope it helps others as well.
That's what I was going to say as well. I must admit that I felt somewhat offended when I read that quote from the Tao. I wrote what I wrote not to preach, but to share my own experience on the topic. I was careful to speak in the 1st person singular and not suggest that anyone do what I was doing or take what I wrote as advice.