First off, I'd like to say thank you northergal for your support.

I feel I have been given recipes for cooking, but not the key. South is my least favourable direction, and I didn't put that label on it, Marie Diamond did. If I knew why South was my least favourable direction then I could confidently move forward; for instance, is my fire energy in excess or depleted? I know that all 5 elements should be represented in all our directions, but how should I apply them? Should I heap on wood and fan the flames so to speak, or throw some water on it and dampen the flame? Thank you northergal and everyone for your time.
Peace,
Michael