Often when one changes the first changes are 180 degrees to what is intended. Many issues that lay at the core were dormant and as we nudge them they awaken.And they are now at the surface, which will explain the behavior. This is a positive sign. You may want to change those past memories with much more positive beliefs. You can do this with the New History Generator. There is a book called "The Self-Esteem Guided Journal" And together with those paraliminals you may see magic in your life.