Hoss
When I use the NHG as well as any other tape
I trust my intuition/feeling. In other words
I go with the flow. However, I set myself a goal/target of what I want to achieve or what obstacle I want to remove.
From your writing it looks like that you need a fixed set of rules rather then trusting yourself. If that is so then try
remove this obstacle by using the NHG.
There was perhaps a time when this "needing a set of rules" or "not trusting yourself"
started. Using the NHG you can overcome and remove that obstacle.
And yes I had a lot of success by using the NHG.
Cheers,