Hi,
I actually just returned You Deserve IT! because I think it just wasn't right for me. I'm going to give the paraliminals another shot though by trying out Properity.
For some reason, I grew VERY scared of the You Deserve It! After really thinking about it and having some coworkers try it, I think it was just the echo voice of Paule Scheele. There are so many movies etc out there about "mind control" etc that have jaded us as a people so I think my guard was raised just because in all my extensive research on paraliminals I didn't find anything that really explained the semi hypnosis function of the CD.
One thing I did notice is that I desperately wanted the CD to work and got a little defensive when others were too creeped out to try it. The 4th time I listened, I imagined a time that I was on trial, age 6. I was too embarrassed to tell the court what abuse happened. In my imaginings, I was an adult and I went right past the police guards and told the little girl that she didn't have to say a damn thing... I protected her and it was OK that she, my self way back when, didn't name the exact detail thus allowing the child molestor a short sentence.
What I'm saying it that I might not have been ready for the You Deserve It! paraliminal. Maybe I'll have an easier time with Prosperity, then I'll give the self esteem supercharger a shot because $35 includes the S&H where as the Hoffman Institute is $4000 and those weekend seminars that do the same thing are usually a couple hundred dollars.
So I say have an open mind, feel safe and get really into it. Mostly though, give it a shot. :-) BLESS YOU AND GOOD LUCK