Brain,
Have someone else ask you the questions. It won't give you a chance to think about what the answer may be while thinking up a question, and so therefore having someone else ask you basically puts you on the spot and you have no other choice but to describe the first thing that comes to mind.
I almost have to laugh at that "please tell me if my system is right and will lead me to success."
That's like saying, "Please get my education for me so that I can get a good job."
It's your job to do that, man. No one else can tell you if something works for sure until YOU do it YOURself. That's the best way to prove anything. Especially if it's "your" system.
How do you get better?
Well firstly do what I said in the beginning of the post, that should help.
Second, do it more, get more comfortable with your answers, and how about this: TRUST YOURSELF!
I'm very glad to see you're making progress. Keep at it.
-JackTuff13
