Agreed - Oriah mountain dreamer in one of her books mentions that we don't need to CHANGE ourselves, rather we need to BECOME ourselves.
As i mentioned, perhaps I have my reasons for not receiving the benefits I was expecting, perhaps some of us are, like u say, too tightly closed to let go and become who we are. Perhaps in the future. But for now, I continue with my holosync, traditional meditation and continual attempts for self awareness.