Sara,
Your approach is interesting - go through everything prior to writing it all down. I've vested heavily and immediately - the Sodona method has been helpful - and have completed 85% of section 1.
Congratulations on inspiring your daughter - well done Mom! What a great way to introduce her to this process.
In terms of your husband being negative, conditioning is conditioning. You may wish to challenge to see if he'd have fun generating a vision board himself - thereafter ask him what he trully enjoys and encourage him to work on those projects. My second suggestion is
continue to invest in yourself - perhaps this is one of the many ways the Universe is pushing back.
For example, I started a lace knitting business after completing a great job with a highly unethical boss (the old saying goes it's better to have a great boss than a great job, I had just the opposite!). Having no desire to return to the Corporate world, I'm struggling to generate sales and realize the Universe is pushing back. I find this both highly irritating (head bang, anyone?) and yet challenging.
TO better accomodate the Law of Attraction and move old movies, I've been an active participant with the
Oneness Movement North America (
as of March 7th, http://www.onenessuniversity.org) medidations and blessings. This will move you farther and will resonate positively with the family: daughter and husband.
Wishing you very well.