Hi there,
I recommend you just listen - it will all take care of itself. These tapes are effortless and joyful. If you have an issues around relationships - try listening to the positive relationships tape (self esteem also helps), and then the personal magnatism - its fantastic! The positive relationship tapes works amazingly and people will definitely find you more attractive, your communication levels change, confidence, etc etc, - I listened to the tape for months and went through amazing changes as its about your relationship with everything on the planet! Try listen more than once a day too! Everything will just begin falling into place for you.
Life just became magical!
Enjoy!
Kaz