Greetings Penny8va,
The mirror is behind your headboard behind your head, attached to the wall, facing the wall. That is if the toilette, sink, or tub is directly behind you or your partner's head. If the bathroom is on the other side of the wall, but non of these three things are directly behind the wall and your head, then it's a non-issue.
Call into Learning Strategies and ask for a feng shui consultant to talk about getting a hexagram done for your house.
The beams in your bedroom that are 1" or less away from the wall, and the same color as the wall, aren't really an issue either.
Do the beams in your living room cross directly over your head with where you sit? Can you sit in a different place, and or move the couches/chairs?
Much Love, Shawn
