G'day Uniquesoul,
It is always great to hear from you, but you know that anyway!
Thank you for your gentleness, it makes me feel good. I am sure you are totally right about the second part. The first part of your reply is something I will reflect on and put in my diary of "insights to remember when I'm low".
Take care - this house is chock-a-block with Ozzies right now!
Talk soon,
French Claire